actualashiok:

You are all very welcome.

10 hours ago on 09.20.14   ★ 2021 notes  via / org

5000letters:

I find it really strange that when you’re in a long distance friendship or relationship all you want to do is see that person and being around them is the biggest most wonderful deal but there are people who interact with them
all the time, on the street and in the classroom and in the shops and it always makes me jealous because you want to be with this person so much and for everyone else they’re nothing special but for you they’re everything special

10 hours ago on 09.20.14   ★ 13737 notes  via / org

if yall havent ever read a beginner’s guide to the end of the universe go educate urselves right now

10 hours ago on 09.20.14   ★ 2 notes  

deliverusfromsburb:

Imagine Person A of your OTP dying from a gaping chest wound. Person B is frantically trying to stop the bleeding when Person A’s eyes flutter open and they whisper faintly, "My eyes are up here, asshole.”

11 hours ago on 09.20.14   ★ 1907 notes  via / org

should i go to bed now or should i stay up until i get really emotional and start hating myself

11 hours ago on 09.20.14
And just because others don't see the abusive behavior doesn't mean it doesn't exist! Maybe lot of the time, abusers will act different in front of friend groups so others won't be aware of what's going on

Anonymous
12 hours ago on 09.20.14   ★ 1 notes  
also be aware that some abusers will encourage their friends to mistreat you as well in order to make you feel as though this is acceptable behavior towards you from all sides. you may feel hesitant to address behaviors that you feel are troubling because of this group mentality. There is no who/what/when/where/why/how/literally anything that justifies you being abused by any person.

Anonymous

^^^^^

12 hours ago on 09.20.14   ★ 1 notes  
Something to note: my abusive relationship was not romantic. He was in a relationship and from what I saw, didn't treat his partner even remotely close to how he treated me. Abusive relationships are not always romantic, thank you very much

Anonymous

this is a really good point, abusive friendships can be just as bad as abusive romantic/sexual relationships, if not worse bc people might not take them seriously

13 hours ago on 09.20.14   ★ 1 notes  

i’m going to go out on a limb here and say that it is possible for mentally ill people to date without being abusive and manipulative

13 hours ago on 09.20.14
Wat about the ppl who are mentally ill but don't have the resources to get treatment r they not allowed to date or smthin

Anonymous

how did u even get this from what i said at all. holy shit

13 hours ago on 09.20.14